Sunday, December 16, 2007
Reasons to wat i meant
so...... how do u expect us to solve problems when u always don wanna continue in the middle of our talk. "i think you have to talk things out with him/her". tats wat ppl always say. but i always cant seem to do it with u.
its not that i wanna ask u to think. its just tat i reached an answer after thinking through about a lot of things. i just want u to realise the same thing. its not our fault that we are like tat now. its the time. the duration we have been together.
why cant we experience tat kind of feeling that u always wanted? cos we know each other too well already. theres v little place where we can chance upon something new about each other. we already know wat each other is like, how we behave, how we think, etc. its v difficult to get tat kind of feeling back. not tat i gave up. but i just find it difficult.
somemore why do u sms me in that kind of tone. its worse than friends. its like total strangers. everytime i sms u i see ur reply like tat i totally sian diao. the way u reply ur friends are even better u know. i know its cos u don feel like smsing me. u don feel like talking to me. but if u feel this way, no matter wat i do it also wont help.
i asked around and talked to my friends about this problem. my listening ears consist of both guys and girls; in fact there were more girls. i told them about ur expectations and my expectations. but the things they say are all the same. tats why i cant help thinking... is ur expectations too high? or am i too lousy for u. why do i feel this way? read on.
i keep thinking.. how to get tat kind of feeling back. wat are we missing now compared to in the past. truthfully, we are not missing anything. its the mindset and thinking of us tat have changed. u gave both of us a chance tat time. so why did it not turn out well? cos we are used to tat kind of result. its been like tat for months. by nature, we will feel the same way. its the same way as st john competition. judges give higher marks to dunman high cos they are used to their good performance. naturally they get high marks even if they perform normally.
try kissing another guy. u will feel the difference immediately. tats why i say its not the fault of ours. its the duration. its from this duration that i think ur expectations are impossible. understand now?
i dunno wat to say. i just hope u understand, even though i know its impossible to get the same thinking as i am.
watever the outcome, just make sure its really wat u wan. and be happy at the end. before tat, pls at least think through wat i say... maybe we shld stop, and look at things in a different way.
i still love u as much as last time, even if u don.
10:18 AM
Tuesday, December 11, 2007
Long time since i last posted. hmm so many things happened. but nvm la its all over. tml is my ecsd evaluation. 8 weeks of chionging e-commerce website is finally over. will we get distinction? it all depends on tml. den on thurs, which is tml, my software engineering evaluation. This subject is the subject im 85% sure that i will get distinction. lol -.- but theres still this unsure feeling about these 2 subjects.after tat, i will be going for my class bbq on friday. on that day, those peeps say they wanna go pasir ris park skate cycle etc. so i think bbq at pasir ris park. lol... they celebrating jackie's birthday there too. hope it will be fun ba.a year is coming to an end so soon. wat have i accomplish? come to think of it, actually i gained a lot of things. but in turn, i lost a lot of things with my girl. have been thinking a lot. but came to no conclusion. hmm... maybe it will be better next time? i dunno... my optimistic self seems to be taking a holiday for almost a year. loli just hope tat whatever u do, make sure u are happy and comfortable with it yea? =)
8:11 AM
Saturday, December 1, 2007
Found this on the net. dunno whether its true.7 points to stoke international feminist anger and create cheap controversy1) Buy them flowers. Simple and always effective. The only time this does not work is when you are trying to mask something bad you have done. Note - guilt flowers do not work, and will make it worse.
2) Always do what they are waiting for you to do. I used to think this was “being too obvious” but no, it isn’t. If your woman complains that you never announce your love for her, then do it within the next 10 minutes. If she mentions that you never get her flowers, then get them the next time you step outside the door. Believe me, being obvious is a good deal better than being wrong.
3) Compliment them to a ridiculous level. This goes for both sexes , but women are especially happy to soak up compliments. Note: stretching the truth a little here is acceptable, but if you find yourself lying to your woman every single time you compliment her, then you have yourself a problem. Solution: get a new woman, or let her get a new guy.
4) Breakfast in bed. Oh yes, a timeless classic. Arriving at 8:30 on a Sunday with a tray containing toast, an egg, a cup of tea and a newspaper will make you Prince Charming for a whole week. And since you are both close to the bed, it’s a win-win situation (meaning that you will, hopefully, get laid).
5) Clean the fucking flat. I do not mean to suggest that all men are slobs and that woman are always clean, but scientific research has shown that, in general, woman have a lower complexity threshold than men (I DID have a link here, but I lost it…) and therefore get more affected by untidiness (not all, but on average). So whip out the mop, clean out the cat box and do the washing, you know it’s your turn anyway.
6) Do unexpected stuff. I do not mean that you should suddenly leap out from behind a door with a pair of tights on your head, I mean NICE unexpected stuff: a sudden dinner, an unexpected massage, or a weekend trip somewhere. This is fun for everybody, and is another win-win situation (sex).
7) Remember dates. Oh very important, this one, and these days, with the average man carrying around more computer power that the Apollo program, there is no excuse at all. Think google calendar, think outlook, think ICQ, think a piece of paper pinned to your desk at work, just THINK. Dates are important, and not just for your loved one, so work it out!
And finally, a note to all men – the ladies fall in love with us for our charm and rough edges, but they will only keep us when we show that we can take a certain degree of training. Remember, a good woman will change you, but it’s almost always for the better.
7:18 AM